Chapter 14 - WE DID NOT FORCE GRANDMA BACK INTO THEIR LIVESFamily members said:

“She’s still their grandmother.”
Yes.
Biology describes relationship.
It does not guarantee access.
For a long time, Diane had none.
No visits.
No calls to the children.
No birthday gifts sent through other relatives.
No surprise appearances at school.
Protective boundaries.
She went to therapy.
Complied with legal consequences.
Stayed away when told.
That mattered more than dramatic apologies.
Years later, limited supervised contact became possible.
Not because enough time passed automatically.
Because Lily and Ethan were asked.
Ethan said yes first.
Lily said no.
So Ethan had limited contact.
Lily didn’t.
Different children.
May you like
Different choices.
That was allowed.